Charlierific Bear

loving the sweet sensation brought about by choc-choc bars. . .

6.23.2006

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Goodbyes affect humans in various ways. The college graduation would, for me, best establish the feeling brought about by goodbyes. Sad yet fulfilling.

I’m pretty sure that all of us want to get through the ever-so-tiring, repetitive, and freaking school life. Well, who wouldn’t? Considering the stress and hassle of being obliged to attend school and submit requirements that aren’t really relevant to your major, would make you loathe school. Actually, what makes school a hell is not the environment itself but the heaps of work given by our inconsiderate and sadist professors. On the brighter side, school is a place, a time, an event that one would definitely miss.

Goodbyes=Longing. In every relationship problems arise, it could be just a petty quarrel, a misunderstanding, or a serious conflict. More often than not, unresolved problems result to separation or break-up. Well, such thing is utterly inevitable. Saying goodbye to someone you truly love is not as easy as blowing off hair covering your eyes. It could be as hard as extracting a cancerous tumor out of ones brain or worse, it could be as hard as facing death. The process doesn’t end with goodbye itself. The pain would linger until you get used to the feeling of being alone. Memories of the past would incessantly run through your mind like the heart pumping blood; beating. Questions and regrets would also dance into the picture. But later on you’d realize that you hit the right key for if you chose to keep your relationship with that person for a longer time and ended up with the same situation, you’d carry with you more memories that will make letting go a much harder thing to do. Indeed, acceptance is the key to happiness! Haha! =) Though this is something easier said than done.